Wednesday Wednesday, Sep 9 2009 

Just got my fix of Larks Rise of Candleford (I think thats the whole name) on UK television – entrancing group of village people with the best acting and actors. Fills the soul with peace and a bit of longing for times (not in my time though) of peaceful simple living, not the hurley burley of these times. I sound 80 but Im not, butI guess there is no going back to less complicated times. When teenagers smoked, and that was the worse thing they could do, or shock from them was swearing in front of their parents – a time when police were respected and feared, where just about everyone but a small minority were middle to low income earners, where people in their first or second job early 20’s didnt expect to be paid far more than someone older or more experienced – just because they had a degree. Yep, Im suffering the midlife crisis – or what Suzanne Braun Levine says is the second adulthood, just reading what I have typed is definitely someone pining for earlier years when I was young and drove a bit erratically, or drank a bit too much than I should, or sounded a bit too cocky to impress supervisors to get the next job etc. At least the guys wore their trousers around their puny hips, and females didnt where those ghastly thongs – womans knickers were meant to be hidden, and there wasnt too much bra strap showing – and what is it with all the clevege these days – is there nothing to be left to the imagination!!  My day trip –  has left me feeling a bit tired, a bit more panicky being a day older, grateful that I lived to be a day older.

Things to be grateful of today:

1. I have a teen that is alive and capable of snapping at me – some have died in fast cars driven by idiot friends, or drugs, or some illness.

2.No problems with the car –

3. The bus on peachgrove road was unsuccessful in forcing me off the road or damaging my car!!

4.My husband – I have someone to lunch with most days.

5.Water, when Im thirsty

6. Cups of tea made by my husband after work.

7. The scent of ‘Beautiful (Estee Lauder)  handcream gifted to me last christmas.

8. A job that pays well and keeps me dry, feed, and nurtures my family.

Tuesday Tuesday, Sep 8 2009 

Over on someone elses blog I note she lists ‘Todays nice things’ which confrms what I read about trying to stay in the now – that is to also be grateful for what is crops up in our day so here goes:

1. The family got up and left the house on time to drop off car & teen at college on time

2. The windscreen repair place was open early

3.Man of house made coffee for me & brought it to me in bed – making it easier to get out of bed

4.Got praise from boss ‘job well done etc’

5.Teen in good mood,

6.Got home at reasonable time to do some (tiny) writing.

7. Cold start to foggy morning but a lovely sunny clear sky spring day

Murder by Suicide: Veronica Heley (2005) Saturday, Feb 28 2009 

An Elle Quicke Mystery. Wonderful “cosy” murder, where Elle, a widow, uses her spare time and ability to draw communicate with just about anyone, to help solve a murder or two.  Easy reading, and good characterisation.

Clutch of Phantoms: by Clare Layton [also writes as Natasha Cooper] 2002 Saturday, Feb 28 2009 

Interesting story of an elderly woman released from prison after 20 odd years for the murder of her husband and his lover.

Reading in Bed: Sue Gee (2007) Saturday, Feb 28 2009 

I love this book. This has been such a good read. Sue’s writing is uncomplicated and comfortable, and her characters are so convincing that I was sad to farewell them when I came to the end of the book. I am sure this book would appeal to young and older women, reading of friendships/intimacy/books/and the comfort and challenges all these bring to our lives, I especially enjoyed reading a story told in the main through the eyes of woman in their mature years. There is a lot of writing out there about the loves and lives of the younger woman, even to the point that some”characters” are in their mid 30’s and their self talk is about being old!! It was nice to read of characters who have actually had a life, someone who is 25 or even 30 hasnt really even got started – like the proliferation of biography’s by people in their 20’s all because they were in some music band, or sports team, or on a television show.

Anyway the praise on the back of Sue Gee’s book by various newspapers is not exaggerated. Great read, good characterisation, and familiar story.

I give this book 5 out of 5 stars.

Careless in Red by Elizabeth George Saturday, Feb 28 2009 

This was passed to me by a fellow bookaholic while touring through Europe because I had run out of reading material. Another Inspector Lynley mystery, but he is not the main investigator. It was an interesting read, a bit dark but I think that is because of its setting ( a coastal landscape). Not one of my favourite reads, but it is nice to know EG is still publishing because I like her writing.

Welcome to 2009 Saturday, Feb 28 2009 

It has been a long time since last bog with some exciting times in between. Spent December 2008/Jan 2009 in overseas and feel very refreshed from the holiday. I just read my Nov2008 entry and shudder at the memory of trying to get too many things completed before we left. Proof of this lies in my medical record of rather high blood pressure which still needs watching.  Need not have worried because our relatives who looked after house and animals did a wonderful job, and even kept the gardens etc looking good. What a wonderful feeling to come home and see the place looking ship shape, knowing we could just lie back and get over the jet lag. Last time we travelled overseas we came home to grass up to our knees and overgrown gardens.

It really is a joy to not have to sleep to the alarm, concern myself with whether sufficient food (all within the “pyramid’ category) is on our pantry shelves, think of some exotic meal each night, while at the same time the laundry is being washed, will need hanging out, and dinner is cooking, while I am dashing through the house with a vaccum cleaner (hence exotic meals turn into darkened or dry blobs of not so exotic meanls) etc..for a couple of months.  Pity two months off work each year could not be arranged other than a nasty illness, accident, or redundantcy.

First leg of the journey to England was a four day stop-over in Singapore. We stayed at the Miramar Hotel which I highly recommend. Fairly central location, good service, nice rooms, has a swimming pool, and a restaurant.  Hotel is within walking distance to China Town, contrary to to the advice of some enthusiastic tax drivers touting for business.  Orchard Road is very much like any major shopping street in London or any other big city – certainly had changed since I lived in singapore in the late 70’s and visited in the early 80’s. I love the cleanliness of the whole island, and knowing it is also one of the safest countries in the world to visit. Food was delicious as always. Bougis Street which had a reputation for its nightlife – similar to that of Amsterdam, has been revamped to make it more “family friendly”. I almost did not recognise it. Where once there were drunken tourists and sailors lurching everywhere, with gorgeous local women on their arm or drinking beside them (bearing in mind they were not all biological women but the men mostly were too drunk to notice), there are now places for families to eat, lots of stalls for family shopping etc. We were told by our local guide (the place has changed so much I was pleased we had joined a small guided tour group) that while Bougis street is not as I knew it, the “previous residents” have moved on to another part of the city – and that government would like to see this type of “night life” disappear entirely.  So we toured by night, walked the markets of China Town by day, and lay by the pool in the afternoons.  Bliss.

It was then on to London, where we quickly packed away our summer shorts & sandels and slipped into our heavy clothes. Met by my wonderful brother in law we spent a few days with my family then picked up the rental car for the next part of our journey. While Im on the car business, we picked up the car from Enterprise Cars Limited in Daventry, and from what I gather they are also in London and a couple of other places dotted around England. If anyone does actually read this blog, and you want a rental car, use this company – they were very accomodating and efficient and we had no difficulties at all.  After a quick break to get over jet lag we made our way off to Wales, the Brecon mountains, Hay on Wye. Daughter was booked in for horse trekking at Tregoyd Farm for a week , a quick drive out of Hay on Wye. We all stayed there, and whenever she went out for a ride hubby and I would walk around after the horses across fields etc. Really was a nice winding down and darn good exercise.  Hay on Wye has thirty odd second-hand bookshops and runs literary festivals which fills up the town. We only made it through 8 of these shops, so we will clearly have to go back and try to get through some more. Most nights we ate at the farm, we were the only ones staying there so it was quiet – and after dinner we would retreat to our room to read a little and fall asleep. Hubby did all the driving with the help of satelite navigation which brother-in-law had downloaded how to get to Hay-on-Wye and back to Long Buckby from there. What we did not realise was that quite a few the roads off the A & M roads were narrower than our driveway here in NZ. Takes a wee bit of getting use to, and given that the whole of UK is quite a few hundred years older than NZ I would have thought they would by now have considered shifted the fencelines or hedgerows since horse and cart are less common on the road, and made them a bit wider taking into account the move to the motor vehicle. One person told me that too much wild life would be homeless then?????

For the whole time we were away, UK and Europe, the weather was kind to us. While some Australians may have felt that 8-10 degrees was postively arctic, from where we live in NZ this was only slightly lower than average. In fact we had overprepared in the weight of our clothing and quite often just a shirt and jacket/coat sufficed. There were quite thick frosts at Brecon but once we picked up speed walking across the fields etc it didnt bother us.  We also loved the landscape of Hereford and Brecon, very much like our own but in the knowledge that it is far older than NZ it makes it more special.

It was then on to Stratford-Upon-Avon, immersed in Shakespeare country and we loved every moment. Visited Shakespeare’s birthplace, his mothers place and every other monument to the bard. A lovely, clean and friendly town is Stratford-Upon-Avon and we intend to return because we only spent a longish day there. My highlights are tied, that is, feeding a barn owl at Ann Hathaway’s farm and having tea and clotted cream with scones. The cream was superior to the other places we had visited which seem to be rather yellowish and from appearance probably past its ‘use by’ date. Daughter wants to return to do a falconary course so that is her incentive for making sure she passes year 13 exams (now doing year 11 so have two years to save for it and another visit to Hay on Wye).  Made a couple of long day trips to Oxford, making use of the park and ride set up. Did not have to bother about finding carparks and coins and how much a days parking would cost etc, just found the depot where the cars are left and hopped on a bus into central Oxford. Very well planned, but not planned in that we went on the first day being Monday, and the Bodlein was not open, which was fine because we went off to visit Christchurch College, and this marvellous book shop across the road that it is very unassuming, with plain black words on white signage “Theology, Philosopy, (and something else but I cant remember what it was – never the less, books on the way home in the shipment) and visited Waterstones etc and did lots of walking about and had lunch at the Bird and the Baby (CS Lewis and Tolkein fan so always pop in when I can) then went back to Oxford the next day and the Bodlein was open but for the last time until next year while they referbish it. 

On 27 December 2008 we began our trip with Trafalgar Tour of Europe. Started out at 6.30am to cross the channel with 30 odd other travellers. There were 7 New Zealanders and the rest Australian’s. So we started with Amsterdam, Cologne, Offenbach (first day – bearing in mind the majority of Eurpean countries are so close to each other you could do several in a day if you didnt stop); then on to all the ‘bergs’ – Heidelberg, Strasbourg, Engelberg, with a Lucerne excursion – lots of snow and schnapps, the latter served me well going up some of those swiss mountains by cable car and the bus etc winding roads are not my pleasure – magnificent views or not. We visited the lovely monument to Louis 16th Swiss Guard & Chapel Bridge where there has been a Lion Monument carved into a stone wall which is simply beautiful – my first time to slightly miss my cats! but the moment was fleeting.On to Innsbruck and then Venice. Lots of sightseeing and boat boarding/unboarding, and thick mist. They are not use to getting snow and there was iced over old snow all over the boat ramps making it very dangerous so I was a bit on edge, and sitting on the boat especially when the fog set in made me wonder if the driver was watching what they were doing because I could not see a thing so how they saw through the fog I dont know. Needless to say I was relieved to see the back of the boating. I had been to Venice before and only wanted to make sure my daughter got to see it. Then on to Rome, a visit to St Peter’s Basilica, to the Forum and a walk around the Colosseum. Its been 20 years since I was last in Rome, and was quite surprised that they have put in turn-styles to manage visitor flows/security etc and amazed to see an elevator!!How historical is that! It came in handy because we had an elderly lady on our tour (83 and enjoying her 7th or 9th Trafalgar tour). We had dinner that evening within viewing distance of the Colosseum, pasta of course, lashings of red wine and a tenor and soprano singing very very close to us – my husband’s ears were a bit tender afterwards but he purchased their CD. Took daughter to Trivi fountain & I was stunned at the difference from when we were there two decades ago – the place was packed, it was a week night, and winter, yet there were loads of people out.  20 years ago it was a handful of us silly tourists standing around in the cold.  On to Isle of Capri where we went up the top in very small vans driving around very very narrow roads again narrower than our driveways, and at great speed with no barriers on the cliff edge so I have to say that this was not a good visit for me. While the rest of the tour went on a chair lift to view some rocks, myself and two other tour members joined our local guide from Naples and visited a home that has been turned into a museum of this amazing Swiss gentleman who had restored the home from its glory during Roman times – this was in the 1930′ s he did the restoration. I cant recall his name right now, I did end up buying his biography and a couple of tiles which have animals featured in mosaics at this house, he was also a doctor and during some epidemic treated hundreds of people who were sure to die. I was so taken with the place Im surprised I didnt record it in my diary, perhaps the drive up there and fenicular trip down took too much out of me. His biography is currently shipping its way back here (along with quite a few other books). Forgot to mention the trip to Pompeii – had never been there before and it was quite a shock. There was a smell of buring rubbish, probably just a local place burning off some garden clippings but knowing how all the people died in that village added to the smell in the air of burning something, made it all a bit too real. Daughter, hubby and I felt quite shaken when we saw the castes of people taken by archaelogists. Quite a few took photo’s of these but we felt it was too gruesome, too sad. The whole atmosphere was of sadness and morbidity. None of us want to return. Then it was on to Assisi where we walked up quite a winding hill to the hotel, which was perched on the very top, too small/windy road for the bus. On to Pisa (fleeting visit for photo opportunity) and on to Nice. While in Nice we went to St Paul de Vence, a wee medieval village where I enjoyed a leisurely walk through the somewhat hilly streets, then sat and watched a game of petanque played by a group of middle aged gents, and one woman smoking a pipe, looking very chique. Then on to Avignon, Lyon and Paris. Paris sightseeing was fun – got a lot more than we bargained when our guide was trying to locate the place that we were to eat on the first night and we went around and around back and forth looking for the place. Eventually got there quite late and was rushed through our meal, and then taken on to a boat cruise and viewing of the Eiffel Tower, what is referred to as an ‘illuminations’ tour. The latter is all lit up like a xmas tree now, seems it has been for a couple of years. While impressive given the height and size of the tower, it is a bit over the top. Second evening was a trip to Moulin Rouge. A visit to Louvre, Notre Dame, and various other key points for “photo opportunities”. I got all the photo opportunities out of my system from the first tour 20 yrs ago so it was nice just to look this time and not worry about focusing the camera. Daughter took most of the photos and did a really good job so I will get her to load some for me. Then it was back to England. And while I miss being able to hang out with my big sister, whether it be to follow her around doing shopping, or just watch television and comment on various silly things, it was a wonderful time to have her “on tap”. Technology is a fine thing but we are still worlds apart so its back to the phone and email.

 We have been back for a month now, and it is good to be home. Nice to go away for a while but nicer to come home and cuddle my animals, and be around familiar surrounds. All the better for knowing that we are privileged to have a beautiful country, nice people, and while we are not a very old country I think we have made some staggering good ways of life and changed the ones that were not so good, far quicker than some of the European countries.

Iwas also please to see I dont need to pour my anxieties about drought on here because the rainfull has been kind to us, we came home to green grass and it only browned up about a fortnight ago; intermittent showers have greened it up again and our water tank is full. I can hear the rain now as I type. Its good to be home.

Bottom on Chair Sunday, Nov 2 2008 

It has been some time since I updated the blog, and so spent a couple of hours adding to the Books category because all that time I was not updating this blog, I was reading. Since about May 2008 I think I will just give a quick overview of life and vow to keep updating to a regular basis.

Weather: It has remained wet, which is to be expected because soccer and wet weather go together. Spent the soccer season out every saturday morning standing in wind and rain, and tending to the odd real and imagined injury with the magic spray (a can of spray cold ice type stuff – harmless placebo).  Then dashed home to warm up and deal with the housework. Thank the Lord for whoever invented the clothes dryer.  Thought numerous times whether we needed a second water tank in case the great drought of 07/08 returns, but that is all we did – thought and talked. Having watched the watertank overflow several times this winter (case in point just last night and we are entering summer in a couple of months) we think we are safe.

DVD watching has been high on the list after soccer support, horse support, housework and napping on a Sunday afternoon. Greatest so far is “Jane Austen’s Book Club”. Also “Run fat boy, Run” another English goodie which I actually saw twice. And thats all I can remember for now.

Gym membership still going but I have been terrible at keeping attendance. New year’s resolution if I were the type to make these and stick to them, would be to go to the gym more often. Have been very tired of late, havent really picked up since the flu in May for heavens sake, but could also be a bit of old age. 

Garden: Disasterous, have not really kept on top of things as much as we would like, but cant plant out too many vegies because we are off to Europe for a couple of months and dont want any new plants dying if there is a drought (good excuse, which I will stick to).

Have come across lots of wonderful blogs, good reading, especially ones about books and reading. Will list a few later when time permits.

My Equine Grandson, Hensen Sunday, Nov 2 2008 

Having reviewed some wonderful blogs I noticed that many include photo’s of family, friends, pets etc so I thought I would post a picture of my daughter’s horse, Hensen.  We should really have named him ‘Masport’ after the well known motor mower, because Hensen seems to mow through a lot of our family’s hard earned cash! While he may not be special to many others, he is treated like royalty by his rider.  He has a dentist, a massage therapist, a vet, and a farrier – we are yet to engage a feng shui advisor for his grazing area, but Im of no doubt that this may not be totally ruled out. A lot of time has been invested in this nag horse, during wind, rain, hail and scorching heat, tending to his every need.  Not to mention the trips to various saddlery shops to buy all the trimmings, magazines etc that go hand in hand with equine interests – all this and he is not an Olympic contender!! But he is the love of my daughter’slife and as such is special to us. As I type, his dressage saddle blanket is going through the washing machine, and I spent the best part of our Sunday afternoon watching him run through a couple of dressage tests for later this week. Husband is going to give his time on Thursday night behind a barbque doing sausages (not horse meat) etc for the riders doing twilight practices for the next month – having spent the last month learning his new skill of ‘calling’ for dressage competitions which I must say he is brave doing, because I have seen a few ‘callers’ chopped down by the rider because they either called too early, too late, or the wrong test – or they were just their so the rider took out their frustration on them. Not an activity for the faint hearted.

The Various Haunts of Men/The Risk of Darkness – Susan Hill Sunday, Nov 2 2008 

The Various Haunts of Men is a damn good warning to us all to be wary of alternative therapies.  I will not go into detail here, suffice to say we should do our homework first and discuss any ailments minor or otherwise, with a General Practioner first. Great writing as usual, and my all time test for a good book is fast page turning, and Ms Hill had me doing this. To read a book and feel a chill down the spine at the same time as a character is really good writing. Also set in England, in a cathedral town, with very ‘real’ characters who are easy to adopt.  What shocked me was that one of the good characters gets killed, I was absolutely gobb-smacked and wondered if I need continue reading (and this is from a person who always reads to the bitter end) so “nice” author had a sting in the tale! 

Such as the sting was though, I got over it and decided lightening only strikes once – and read The Risk of Darkness.  Another great read, suspense, tension, good characters, pace etc etc and this one involves children so for those readers who get a bit sqirmish – be warned. But once I got past the whole ‘missing child’ thing, I had placed my faith in DCI Simon Serrailler and was on my way.  Lightening does strike more than once, another character from the previous book was written off. How Ms Hill has the heart to take out these people I do not know – will I read another Hill book involving Serrailler knowing she could chop another down like the others, – Yep. I couldnt help but read on, and Serrailler and his sister are not just run of the mill characters Hill uses like puppets to tell a story – I just hope she doesnt go for ‘Cat’ next, Simon’s sister?? 

I rate both these books 5 stars out of 5.

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